I’ve been with a woman with BPD for 4.5 years and married for 1. I’m really thinking of filing for divorce /leaving .
The lack of affection ( it’s like pulling teeth to get even a quick peck )
The lack of intimacy ( not kidding , once in the last 4-5 months )
The compulsive spending ( thereby I have to over tend myself financially , can’t save money. She blows her checks within days )
The constant sleeping
The poor choice in friends who take advantage of her
Refusing to consistently take her meds
Labeling me as “ vanilla “ sexually ( or maybe she’s shared her previous trauma and I’m trying to be sensitive:not cause her to have flashbacks )
Why the hell am I sticking around ???? Im obviously not wanted here . She’s just interested in me paying the bills , and doesn’t give a
PLEASE READ if I’m happy
