I do not know how to answer my ex. He has full custody of my 5 month old baby and is being a total jerk. I am afraid of answering his messages as I do not want to say something that will later on be used against me, or show him my feelings and become vulnerable to getting back into his and his family's control. On the other hand, as many questions as I have over how he and his family are handling my baby, and with the fear of making a wrong move, I haven't been answering him. That brings me another fear of him using my silence against me and saying that I do not care about my child.
He has already stated that everything he is doing is "for the betterment of his son" and long story short, he really cannot see the effects his actions will have on the development of our baby.
