Feeling set up

[wantmorepeace]

Sibling with ubpd suddenly being nice after a period of excoriation and low contact.  I feel like it could be a precursor to telling me how good they are (as opposed to me).  Overall, I'm better than I've been at other times, but this does have me a little tweaked.  I'm trying to come down and push it aside and felt like writing might help!  Thanks for listening.

[Notwendy]

In a way the "being good" times were more uncomfortable  because of the uncertainty. It seemed that at any time, it could change. When BPD mother was angry and acting out, at least I knew what she was doing in the moment. The nice times were more of an unknown.

[wantmorepeace]

Agreed.