They have to inject their venom

[Depression = 72% of members]

I was thinking today how good things are, I am feeling the best in years, how nice it was I haven't heard from Xw for weeks but all good things must come to an end. Yesterday I picked s10 up at 4:00 but I did not know the judge changed pick up time to 5:00pm. Xw text me that I should of picked him up at 5:00. It's been 4:00 for a long time Xw should of left it be but she couldn't. I replied very polite and said as adults we can agree to keep the 4:00 pick up, and I gave my very logical reasons that any normal parent would say sounds good but with any normal parent none of this would ever of happened. Her text reply was the usual ignorance. Maybe this should be on coparenting board but I just wanted to share how good things are with the BPD/NPD gone from our life and how well we learn to process their awfulness once they are gone from our life. I went on with my access evening like I didn't hear from her at all. Life is very good with the BPD/NPD gone, it just takes time.

[bus boy]

I was thinking today how good things are, I am feeling the best in years, how nice it was I haven't heard from Xw for weeks but all good things must come to an end. Yesterday I picked s10 up at 4:00 but I did not know the judge changed pick up time to 5:00pm. Xw text me that I should of picked him up at 5:00. It's been 4:00 for a long time Xw should of left it be but she couldn't. I replied very polite and said as adults we can agree to keep the 4:00 pick up, and I gave my very logical reasons that any normal parent would say sounds good but with any normal parent none of this would ever of happened. Her text reply was the usual ignorance. Maybe this should be on coparenting board but I just wanted to share how good things are with the BPD/NPD gone from our life and how well we learn to process their awfulness once they are gone from our life. I went on with my access evening like I didn't hear from her at all. Life is very good with the BPD/NPD gone, it just takes time.

[Mr.R.Indignation]

Not had deal with all the stuff you've been through and yet this is the first week I really feel liberated, so congrats man. I've been following your posts on and off since I joined. It's nice to have stuck around and seen people's progress. So yeah, congrats on getting through. It's a beautiful world, am I right?

[bus boy]

Thanks a lot, it is a good world. Things have been improving for a long time. It's been slow but worth every bit of pain I've been through. I figure it time to share the good that comes with the recovery of a BPD/ NPD r/s. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

[Mutt]

Hi bus boy,

I'm glad that it worked out for you, she may try to bait you at switch on / switch off days, don't take the bait, don't try to reason logic because it won't work don't JADE. You can make it a goal to not justify, you don't have to explain anything to anyone.

Don't "JADE" (justify, argue, defend, explain)

[bus boy]

HI Mutt, logic does not come to play in any way what so ever with Xw or probably any personality disordered person. I tried to make my logic sound like it would benifit s10 and it would but Xw won't even coparent for the sake of our son. If Xw feels it's a personal request for me, the outcome for s10 means nothing to her.