Making the break

[Depression = 72% of members]

Hi everyone - after 10 years of verbal abuse by my husband, I'm finally taking steps to exit the relationship.  Ugh.  So much to do.  I've read lots of the books and started the Splitting book last night. 

[pinkroses]

Hi everyone - after 10 years of verbal abuse by my husband, I'm finally taking steps to exit the relationship.  Ugh.  So much to do.  I've read lots of the books and started the Splitting book last night. 

[Naughty Nibbler]

Welcome Pinkroses: 
I'm sorry to hear your marriage is ending. It has to be a very stressful time for you. Does your husband know yet? Do you have children? Are you moving out right away?

You say you are reading a splitting book. Is that splitting in the BPD sense or as in breaking up a relationship?

The information in the right hand margin should be helpful for you in the days ahead.

There are a lot of helpful people here with listening ears and this is a safe place to share. Do you have friends or family to offer support during this difficult time?

Take care and let us know how we can help