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Author Topic: 4 months post b/u she still has photos of me and only me on her fb  (Read 402 times)
alwayswrong4

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« on: March 09, 2017, 11:43:49 PM »

i dont get it... she broke up with me or rather i did with her because the disrespect during the devaluement stage was just too much. we dated for nearly two years. her longest relationship... im so confused why she still keeps these photos of her and i up... including us kissing with the caption "perfect, love you babe" and photos with my family, her and i. She even has two photos of us in her featured photos with her head on my shoulder. im literally the only guy in any of her photos. I deleted all of the photos of us on her fb and i have her blocked.

i havent seen her in more than a month... .she showed up at a party she knew i would be at... and then texted me a week or two later to which i never responded. I think she even moved from IL to florida... .yet she keeps all this stuff up

i havent heard from her in over 2 weeks. Im trying to move on but i cant help to think that shes staging a come back... .  Most stories on this forum involve a replacement but it doesnt seem she has or had one since we ended our relationship.

This is definitely the strangest break up ive been through... i dont understand any of it and i may be a little narcissistic in thinking she will come back but i dont think ive ever had an exgirlfriend not try to come back to me.
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« Reply #1 on: March 10, 2017, 04:26:57 AM »

I'm in no way a facebook specialist but could those pictures be for your eyes only? Isn't there some way to make some content on there available to specific people? Or is this stuff public?
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« Reply #2 on: March 10, 2017, 07:54:13 AM »

I'm in no way a facebook specialist but could those pictures be for your eyes only? Isn't there some way to make some content on there available to specific people? Or is this stuff public?

I have her blocked I'm looking from my friends profile.
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« Reply #3 on: March 10, 2017, 08:33:14 AM »

I have her blocked I'm looking from my friends profile.

We all know where this is headed... .Let us all know when you get back from that recycle and we will help you detach.
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« Reply #4 on: March 10, 2017, 08:42:48 AM »

Alwayswrong, if your thinking about her and checking up on her why don't you just contact her? No point in agonizing if you want to be recycled.
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« Reply #5 on: March 10, 2017, 09:15:26 AM »

i dont get it... she broke up with me or rather i did with her because the disrespect during the devaluement stage was just too much. we dated for nearly two years. her longest relationship... im so confused why she still keeps these photos of her and i up... including us kissing with the caption "perfect, love you babe" and photos with my family, her and i. She even has two photos of us in her featured photos with her head on my shoulder. im literally the only guy in any of her photos. I deleted all of the photos of us on her fb and i have her blocked.

Same for me, almost 1 year later.
Don't know what's on her Facebook, but her instagram still has pics of me.

It's probably not what you're thinking - i.e. it's not because you're special or because she loves you.
They're often referred to as Sanity props.
The idea being that a complete absence of relationship history would be a red flag - especially relative to age.
So pictures of you and her should be enough to mislead any potential suitor into believing that she has had and is capable of having "normal" relationships.
It's not a case of answering a question, it's a case of preventing it ever being asked to begin with.

"If she's so attractive, and she is x years old, how come she never had a relationship?"

There could be a multitude of reasons for choosing you- e.g. socio-economic status, attractiveness, muscularity, masculinity, relationship seriousness, recent history.

Or simply just an absence of any other person/pictures/settings to convey the image.



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« Reply #6 on: March 10, 2017, 09:18:08 AM »

I have her blocked I'm looking from my friends profile.

Assuming your friend is not friends with her, you can just open an anonymous tab  and navigate to her Facebook url to see her public profile (That might require a fake user account to sign in with.)
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