Hi aconstantpoet,
I'd like to welcome you to bpdfamily. That's good news that you're bf is going to be going to therapy, when you say calm before the storm, is there something in particular that worries you?
My suggestion would be to read as much as you can about the disorder, is there something specific that you wanted to know about your bf over stepping boundaries? Can you describe the ups and downs? I'm looking forward to hearing more of your story.