I finally worked out what happened. Well I think it was this.

[Mavrik]

Been off Facebook since end of February when my BPD ex finished with me after an angry outburst and suggesting I was in a relationship with someone else.

On my birthday I posted 4 separate photos of me and 4 different female friends, who I chose to thank on my birthday for all their support. A photo of me and my female friend and a little thank you blog, that they were the best, thanks and love you loads.

Just seen these pics now that I went on Facebook. And think this may have been the catalyst of the end. But if was hanging by a thred before then.

Wonder if I hadn't have posted the pics if it would have lasted longer.

She had 4 relationships when she was with me, yet gets angry and annoyed at a photo of me and my friends.

Can't seem to do anything when in a relationship with a BPD person.
 

[roberto516]

I agree when you say it was hanging by a thread anyway. I tried to figure out "the incident" where I blew it/made her give up. But it was a long time coming. I think. No I'm positive .

It's a tough spot to be in. Trying to figure it all out. Put the puzzle pieces together. Sometimes we aren't going to have enough pieces to see a clear picture in relato ships like this.

How do you feel with this knowledge that you discovered?

[Mavrik]

I feel like I dodged a bullet as she was possessive and jelous type also.

If it wasn't this she would have found something else to use to end the relationship. As she needs to justify her abandonment issues.

I know she'll never change, she's a therapist herself and can't even see she has BPD.

She'll probably be at a nightclub right now getting off with someone a lot younger than her when she tells them her fake age, they will go back to hers have unprotected sex, then try to hook them in by saying she maybe pregnant. When they find out she's lying they will run a mile, if they stay, once they realise she's BPD they will run a mile. She's always done that and always will.


Yet everyone is wrong in showing they care and she's right

Who needs that.

Can't believe we even spoke about marriage as noo way would this have lasted.

[Rayban]

Playing facebook games  (blocking/unblocking) is a redflag, and another reason to stay away.