Hi and thanks for the welcome and response! I have not yet been diagnosed with BPD. I live with all the symptoms of a non BP. Though I would say I have caught some fleas. I suffer from depression and anxiety which are under control for the most part at the moment.
My fiancé and I decided to have fajitas for dinner tonight. I volunteered to cook. She would not let me. I tried to intervene a few times and help but she was not having it. She kept telling me to get out of the kitchen. I know this will be thrown back in my face in the next few days. It's the small things like that which drive me crazy on a day to day basis. Sounds like a first world problem haha.
I am learning to focus more on building my own life. Searching new career choices and spending more time on me. This has also been a great challenge as my fiancé becomes very jealous when I try to do things on my own. It's hard to have my own space consistently without feeling guilty about it.
I have started looking into the resources on this site and am very pleased with what I see. So much to offer here. Thanks to everyone involved!
