trying to avoid divorce

[timberwood]

At age of 58 I got married for the first time 4 years ago.   After I do my wife behavior started to change.  I was in treatment earlier this year and have learned that she my BPD traits.  starting to work on work book. 

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[onelittleladybug]

Hi Timberwood and

I'm sorry for what you're going through but glad you have found a community where many of us have been through similar experiences, and we can learn from each other.

After I do my wife behavior started to change.  I was in treatment earlier this year and have learned that she my BPD traits.

Please tell us more when you feel comfortable doing so, and let us know what kind of help and support you hope to get here.

[Meili]

I would like to join onelittleladybug in welcoming you to the bpdfamily.

I wish for you as much help and support as I have received.

How long were you and your wife together before you married?

Was there something that happened recently that brought you here?

I look forward to hearing more of your story.