I don't think either of my exBPDgf's will ever seek help.

[JHKMX]

I don't think either of my exBPDgf's will ever seek help. They both have narcissistic traits so in their heads it's everyone else that is the problem.

[jambley]

I don't think either of my exBPDgf's will ever seek help. They both have narcissistic traits so in their heads it's everyone else that is the problem.

I agree with you and don't want to fuel the fire, but realistically my ex won't seek help... .I observed so much erratic and outrageous behaviour. As she is a nurse with BPD traits, she probably feels 'above' seeking therapy.

[jambley]

npd/BPD traits

[Pedro]

The nearest my ex gfBPD got to seeking help was trying different SSRI's. She is slightly stable but won't enter any form of counselling or therapy even though it is available through the National Health Service here near to where we live in the UK.