Tools to deal with BPD ex with co-parenting

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

BPD ex continually fabricates stories of me, calls me bad person, trys to prevent me from being involved in my child's events, got us kicked out of co-parent counseling, says will file for motion to modify (recent Judgment 6 months ago) with a gardian ad litem, and the list goes on.  I'm not feeding into the drama and continuing to be civil.  Anyone going through this similar situation and any advice is welcome.

[exhausted2017]

BPD ex continually fabricates stories of me, calls me bad person, trys to prevent me from being involved in my child's events, got us kicked out of co-parent counseling, says will file for motion to modify (recent Judgment 6 months ago) with a gardian ad litem, and the list goes on.  I'm not feeding into the drama and continuing to be civil.  Anyone going through this similar situation and any advice is welcome.

[livednlearned]

Oh wow, got you kicked out of coparenting   

What happened?

How old is your child, and what is your current custody order like?

If there is a specific interaction you'd like some feedback about, share away. Most of us have been in the trenches and can relate to what you're going through.

LnL

[soundofmusicgirl]

exhausted2017 welcome to the club. How old is your child and what is your current custody arrangement? Are you trying to co-parent? Some people here have found that parallel parenting is the only way to go for them.

Also, I don't know where you live, but I know that in "our" state you can't file for a modification for 2 years unless there is a significant change in circumstances. Of course that does not stop a BPD to find reasons to drag you to court.

My DH is always very civil with his BPDxw. But sometimes I am mad that she can behave like a maniac and have no consequences follow and we have to be the reasonable once.