Bf issues

[Depression = 72% of members]

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years now. He pretty much forced himself on me in the beginning. He played the victim to make me feel sorry for him in order for him to move in with me and my kids after one month of dating. He has never paid a bill since living with me. Never. I caught him masterbating in the bathroom and later went through his phone and found tons of pornography. He portrays himself as charming and kind but he has another side that is violent and hurtful and reckless.

[Ames smith]

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years now. He pretty much forced himself on me in the beginning. He played the victim to make me feel sorry for him in order for him to move in with me and my kids after one month of dating. He has never paid a bill since living with me. Never. I caught him masterbating in the bathroom and later went through his phone and found tons of pornography. He portrays himself as charming and kind but he has another side that is violent and hurtful and reckless.

[araneina]

"forced himself on me" means... .literally or figuratively?

Welcome to the forum!

[Mutt]

Hi Ames Smith,



I’d like to join araneina and welcome you to the family. You mentioned that he’s violent. Are you sad right now? Has he been violent towards you?