new twist..what does this even mean..?

[dumpsterdog]

Now , after all this crazymaking, and me thining its finally over... .she sends a text ... " Hi ... I think of you oftern and hope you are well."

What the heck.?  after she bashed me and broke it off for about the 6th time ... someone please comment on what would make her even do tht.?

[pearlsw]

Hi dumpsterdog,

Sorry to hear how much pain you are in right now! I know this is so frustrating to deal with someone whose emotions change in this fashion.

Have you had a chance yet to read up on Relationship Recycling? https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=95860.0

I want to ask though, why she is doing it aside, what do you want to do about it?

wishing you peace, pearl.

[dumpsterdog]

What do i want to do about it... .i responded... .and gave it to her straight about how much she is tearing me apart again, and how i should have left so manny time sbefore etc... .basically called her on all her bad behavior, including her " new friend " whom she went out with on her last birthday , and said no to me,,,

i called it like a saw it... told her i should have never even spoken to her again after that little episode... .shes done that several times... told me no for a date on special days like thanksgiving, and then called this " nice guy friend " out and went out with him instead and then i found out... .

anyway... .

she ended up texting me back " f off "

now what... i do love her , but i had to let her know its " just not ok to have your cake and eat it too "...

now what... .ignor her.?

[dumpsterdog]

and to add inslut( oops , but maybe appropriate sp ) to injury, I told her it wsnt me thata she couldnt trust , but rather that she could not trust herswelf and that she just couldnt handle the truth...

she replied ... ." oh yes i can handle the truth... .I was with a loser for 6 year... .I'm blocking you from these bs texts "

and thats the last contact for 4 days now... .

what in the world to do next ... ?

[Harley Quinn]

dd, do you want this woman back in your life?  If so, we can move your posts to Bettering where you can get advice on improving the situation and learn communication skills to help to reduce the tension in your interactions.  Let us know how best we can support you. 

Love and light x