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Re-introduction here! I was a member several years ago and thought Ι'd come back. I am a 54 year old with ADHD, anxiety, and depression and my husband has Borderline and Narcissistic symptoms. We have a 16 year old daughter who has ADHD. We get frustrated with his rages and I thought Ι'd check in with some fellow sufferers. BTW I know he is a sufferer also! Ι':) LOVE TO HEAR YOUR COPING STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS!
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Hi djesquire,
May I ask what has brought you back at this time? Did you see some improvements previously? Need a tuneup on these issues?
Me? Mostly working on myself and my understanding of him - that's what has made a difference.
wishing you peace, pearl.
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welcome back djesquire!
it really helps to have a strong support system in place, makes you feel less alone, helps you cope, you can get good advice, plus i think we are quite something as a community!
so what brings you back? whats going on in your marriage?
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