What's wrong with her apologizing after an argument? That doesn't sound like a problem to me. Am I missing something?
Absolutely nothing, it’s just a change in her regular behaviour. Before recent times she would never ever apologise. I would always be too blame.
This switch in behaviour I find odd.
Why does your gut tell you she's cheating when you've been down that road before only to find that you were wrong? Why is that where you go when it could be so many other things?
When we first met she told me she had never been faithful to any of her past partners her whole life. This has stuck with me. On many occasions if a conflict has risen because of my ‘paranoia’ she would always reassure me that I am the only man she has ever been faithful too and she has made a change.
I work night shifts and she is always at home. We have a ritual, every night I will call her at the same time to wish goodnight. Or she will call me...
Recently I have been unable to reach her at these times, her excuse is she has fallen asleep early (could be true who knows). Throughout the day on these particular nights she would always make reference of how she is planning to read a book in bed tonight... as if she is setting the scene?
Maybe I am being paranoid but lately she has proven herself to be a liar and very sneaky indeed with another situation that has risen
I think it may help if you start with "I feel". Feelings aren't wrong.
Great advice, I have already began using this technique.
