He is always cheating on me

[Depression = 72% of members]

Hi I am 30 years old girl that have boy friend with BPD we are in relationship for 1.5 year and in this term we are have bad and good days the bad experience is common that good one he is always cheating on me and on instagram date with another girl he is vetarian and musiction and singer so he is popular and because he is good in wealth and have good level in society his family are all physican doctor he can find girl very easy and it make me harm how could I manage this and don't let him to go

[Iaminloves]

Hi I am 30 years old girl that have boy friend with BPD we are in relationship for 1.5 year and in this term we are have bad and good days the bad experience is common that good one he is always cheating on me and on instagram date with another girl he is vetarian and musiction and singer so he is popular and because he is good in wealth and have good level in society his family are all physican doctor he can find girl very easy and it make me harm how could I manage this and don't let him to go

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[RolandOfEld]

Hi Iaminloves and welcome! I'm sorry to hear you are having such a difficult time with your relationship.

It sounds like you care very deeply about this person despite their behavior. Is your boyfriend diagnosed or aware of BPD? How did you come to learn about the cheating?

Warmly,
RolandOfEld

[Mutt]

Hi Isminloves,



Id like to join RolandOfEld and welcome you to the family. I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I can read the pain in your words,, you’ve come to the right place, you’re not alone  I’d like to echo RolandOfEld Is he diagnosed with BPD?