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Penelope222
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« on: April 05, 2018, 09:17:50 PM »

 
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« Reply #1 on: April 05, 2018, 09:37:14 PM »

Welcome, Penelope222!

 Welcome

I just want to pop in to welcome you to the discussion boards. I'm sorry for what brought you here, but I'm glad you're with us. We help and support each other here, so that's what you should expect.

I lurked here for a while before feeling compelled to become a member, and I'm so glad that I have! It sounds like you are having an especially difficult time right now, but I hope that you will stick around and receive the support that you need.

Thank you for sharing what you have thus far:

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I'm a wreck.

Can you give us a backstory, so we will know what exactly you're dealing with that makes you feel this way? Please let us know how best to support you.

If you look up to the left of your screen under our logo you'll see these words: "Facing Emotionally Intense Relationships." From what you've shared thus far, I would think that your situation/relationship may fall into this category, so just know that you're absolutely in the right place. And we're so glad you're here. There's help here. There's hope here.

Please tell us more when you're comfortable doing so and feel free to make yourself at home. You are among peers.

Keep writing if it helps.


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« Reply #2 on: April 05, 2018, 11:00:21 PM »

Hi Penelope222,

I'd like to join Speck on welcoming you here.   Smiling (click to insert in post)

How are you a wreck and what's happening? You will find good support here, and we'd love to hear your story on order to support you. 

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« Reply #3 on: April 06, 2018, 06:46:41 AM »

Hey there Penolope222,   and joining Speck and Turkish in sending you warm greetings.

im a wreck

How are you feeling right now? Hope to hear more about your situation. We're here to hear you out.

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« Reply #4 on: April 06, 2018, 12:11:11 PM »

Hey Penelope222, Let me join Speck, Turkish & Spero, and say Welcome.
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« Reply #5 on: April 06, 2018, 12:14:42 PM »

Whoops, I posted that before I finished.  I know the feeling that I had nothing left in the tank during marriage to my BPDxW.  Perhaps you are experiencing a similar feeling?  Fill us in when you get a chance.

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« Reply #6 on: April 08, 2018, 11:35:33 AM »

Hello, Penelope222:

How have you been doing since the last time you waved at us?

We're here if you need to talk.

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« Reply #7 on: April 10, 2018, 06:14:53 PM »

Hi, Penelope222!
I’d like to join the others in welcoming you here. Why are you a wreck? What happened?
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« Reply #8 on: April 12, 2018, 10:52:34 PM »

Hey, P222. Is there anything that we can help with?
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