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I can see the mental damage, the breaking down, the loss of memory, the anxiety, the going to a room and not remembering why all from relentless bitching and tearing me down for hours at a time day in and day out, year in and year out. She is not worth this BS.
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Hi 5min,
What’s going on? Can you tell us more please?
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Hi 5min,
It helps to talk. What’s going on?
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Quote from: 5min on April 11, 2018, 04:22:26 PM
I can see the mental damage, the breaking down, the loss of memory, the anxiety, the going to a room and not remembering why... .
... .relentless tearing me down for hours at a time day in and day out, year in and year out. She is not worth this BS.
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... .are you there, throw us a line Brother, what's going on?
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Every morning is between 30 min to 2 hrs of tearing me down. Then it continues as she blows up my phone at work. Followed by evening a22 chewings. Every story, every discussion has a point of what I did wrong. Here is how you have ruined my life. Here is how you are the cause of every problem in my life. Onit goes.
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Quote from: 5min on April 13, 2018, 08:21:33 AM
Every morning is between
30 min to 2 hrs of tearing me down
. Then it continues as she blows up my phone at work. Followed by evening a22 chewings. Every story, every discussion has a point of what I did wrong. Here is how you have ruined my life. Here is how you are the cause of every problem in my life. Onit goes.
Ugg... .
How do you feel after listening to and being part of these discussions?
How often does something actually get "solved" or "resolved" as part of your participation in these discussions?
Hope to see your responses soon... .I feel confident we can help you find a pathway to a better place... .with less a$$ chewing...
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