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« on: August 01, 2018, 10:29:36 PM »

FWIW, it never ends as long as you have contact. Mine are in college and live with me, and we still have flares.

First it was something I told about one of them to relative of his that he didn't know about, and then it was giving in to his probing on a decision one of them that he wasn't consulted about. Both backfired. I've decided that our offspring deserve their privacy, so now I just give general information if any. They are completely estranged from him.

He also accuses me of being enmeshed with them because I used to participate in carpools, went to all of their events, took them to the gym, etc. etc. Nope, just good parenting.  
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