Holidays are impossible

[Band aid baby]

How can I spend time with my family and not argue about old issues that my mom has with absolutely everything?

[thebaddaughter]

Sister,  I love you.  So glad we found this group!  I love you.

[Harri]

Hi and welcome.

There are several communication techniques that can help with this.  It would be easier to guide you if you could share a few more details about how these conversations typically sound.

Changing how you respond and interact can affect the communication quite a bit but it involves you making changes. 

So please share more and e can talk about it.