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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: February 15, 2019, 07:12:40 AM »

They love the unattainable type because they cannot truly love. SO... .BE the unattainable one and do NC if you dare to even want this sick kind of lasting love. BEWARE- If you go back, they will discard or devalue you again.
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« Reply #1 on: February 15, 2019, 10:50:57 AM »

Hi, GlennT.   Welcome new member (click to insert in post)  It sounds like you're feeling exasperated.  Would you like to say more about what's happening with you?  What inspired you to start this thread?
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« Reply #2 on: February 17, 2019, 06:45:35 PM »

 Thanks. Sometimes I wonder why I still let them get to me after 10 friggin years. Damn, they can be persistent!   I still  have some hidden fleas crawling around somewhere I need to work out. I thank God there is still this board to come back to.
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« Reply #3 on: February 17, 2019, 06:50:19 PM »

What actually happened?
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« Reply #4 on: February 17, 2019, 06:52:39 PM »

Social media/meet-up sites/cyber stalking/hacking bs. Not real time, but she still tries to get me, yet I never said a word to her in ten years. Hacking my computer for months is what is making me pissed right now
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