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They love the unattainable type because they cannot truly love. SO... .BE the unattainable one and do NC if you dare to even want this sick kind of lasting love. BEWARE- If you go back, they will discard or devalue you again.
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It sounds like you're feeling exasperated. Would you like to say more about what's happening with you? What inspired you to start this thread?
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Thanks. Sometimes I wonder why I still let them get to me after 10 friggin years. Damn, they can be persistent! I still have some hidden fleas crawling around somewhere I need to work out. I thank God there is still this board to come back to.
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Social media/meet-up sites/cyber stalking/hacking bs. Not real time, but she still tries to get me, yet I never said a word to her in ten years. Hacking my computer for months is what is making me pissed right now
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