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« Reply #30 on: March 25, 2019, 06:55:19 PM »
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Secondly, this guy showed my daughter how to buy class A's online. He played in part in my son getting kicked out. He also tried to convince my boys that I was the reason they had not seen me for months.

This tells you all you need to know about this individual...

I think, you need to do whatever you can do to protect your children...

This guy is bad news Brother.

Hang in there,

Red5
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« Reply #31 on: March 25, 2019, 07:07:01 PM »
Yes red5, that's what all these plans have been aiming towards.

We have to look at the facts. 3/4 kids have been abandoned by her. They are safe.

What's the odds her anger won't turn to the youngest? Whether he's favourite or not I'm convinced it's going to happen. Who will already have somewhere safe for him to live? I have parental responsibility over all of them, if he asks to live with me it shall be done instantly.

The bf is irrelevant, that's how I see him.

Their r/$hit is based on BS, drugs and alcohol. The kids and her family can't stand him. She will beat him down to nothing or he will leave her, let's face it her life's a mess, she's hardly a catch. He's just desperate, he's my age and never had a gf, he has no clue about parenting and has stated he's not interested in the kids. It begs the question of what does she see in him? That's easy, she's desperate too, who in their right mind would want someone who has done the things she has? She has no options, both bottom feeders.

Am I being harsh? Idgaf

The kids are what's important here and I will do my best to protect them.
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« Reply #32 on: March 25, 2019, 07:08:33 PM »
She’s with another man. Living with him.
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« Reply #33 on: March 25, 2019, 07:15:22 PM »
What do you need to see?
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« Reply #34 on: March 25, 2019, 07:22:12 PM »
What I need to see is her get her crap together so we can all just stop worrying over the welfare of the kids.

That's not going to happen, so I need to see the kids with me.
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« Reply #35 on: March 25, 2019, 07:58:35 PM »
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The kids are what's important here and I will do my best to protect them.

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I need to see the kids with me.

Right On !

I was a single dad for about five years... Grampa told me many times... “boy, the biggest responsibility a man can have ever in this world is to be a Father!”...

You and your children are in my prayers Brother,

Forge ahead, steady as she goes... you are headed in the right direction...

Remain resolute and steadfast... your doing great 

All the best and may good Karma find you!

Keep posting... we got your “six” Brother!

Red5
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« Reply #36 on: March 26, 2019, 05:37:14 AM »
I’m glad to read what you said, Longterm. The kids. I like the advice from Red’s granddad. It’s true. Single dads have a lot stacked against us. Glad to stand beside you guys. Longterm, it’ll get easier. Focus on the kiddos. You’re gonna be alright.
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« Reply #37 on: March 30, 2019, 11:59:12 AM »
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