My BPD ex keeps unblocking and blocking me?

[Depression = 72% of members]

Hi guys and girls,

I am having a very very hard and depressing time with all of this and am looking for guidance, a long story short my ex discarded me for a man 10 years younger than her and our breakup was messy in the end, my business failed I became depressed and she in essence left me, cutting the story short I keep getting blocked and unblocked from social media she phoned the police on me claiming harassment when I was trying to help her I would get random phone calls being blamed for stealing her friends etc, in which I have done none of the sort, after me going to the police station and being given just a warning at the end of February this year I was then unblocked on all social media and forms of communication, I have found within the last few hours I have been blocked from Facebook again but nothing else as our photos were still up, she unblocked me on WhatsApp and kept posting 4 or 5 new pictures of her so called new love and has copied an Instagram post of mine as well.

What I am asking is, is this an charm as why would you call the police nothing happened and then unblock me and copy an Instagram post then reblock Facebook please can someone help me is she trying to get me to reestablish contact with her and a charm , her last post was about no matter how hard things get I still have my dog,

I messed up by losing my business and everything but I do want to reestablish contact so was asked to re post here for a way to try and get contact again, I do miss her I am hoping someone can give me some advice as this is destroying me

[Thecargiant]

Hi guys and girls,

I am having a very very hard and depressing time with all of this and am looking for guidance, a long story short my ex discarded me for a man 10 years younger than her and our breakup was messy in the end, my business failed I became depressed and she in essence left me, cutting the story short I keep getting blocked and unblocked from social media she phoned the police on me claiming harassment when I was trying to help her I would get random phone calls being blamed for stealing her friends etc, in which I have done none of the sort, after me going to the police station and being given just a warning at the end of February this year I was then unblocked on all social media and forms of communication, I have found within the last few hours I have been blocked from Facebook again but nothing else as our photos were still up, she unblocked me on WhatsApp and kept posting 4 or 5 new pictures of her so called new love and has copied an Instagram post of mine as well.

What I am asking is, is this an charm as why would you call the police nothing happened and then unblock me and copy an Instagram post then reblock Facebook please can someone help me is she trying to get me to reestablish contact with her and a charm , her last post was about no matter how hard things get I still have my dog,

I messed up by losing my business and everything but I do want to reestablish contact so was asked to re post here for a way to try and get contact again, I do miss her I am hoping someone can give me some advice as this is destroying me

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hi Thecargiant,

i can tell that this is hard, and confusing. i have a couple of questions that will give us a better feel for the situation and how we can help.

she phoned the police on me claiming harassment when I was trying to help her I would get random phone calls being blamed for stealing her friends etc

in what way were you trying to help her? what was the communication like leading up to her going to the police?

our breakup was messy in the end

can you tell us how long you were together, and tell us about more about how the breakup went down? what happened?