Hi glory
Keeping busy and getting on with our own lives is one way to cope. When son lived with us I’d get so frustrated in his inaction. He resists change. Of course, he was comfortable living at home but that’s not the real adult world is it.
How can I help him be well enough to live on his own?
Is he in any kind of therapy and able to financially support himself?
What kind of support do you have? You say you want to move forwards with your own life and that’s perfectly understandable and reasonable. When would you like to move?
LP