end of three year relationship but still have a side business together

[cbalzly]

I am not necessarily looking for any specific advice today, but it sounds like I need to make a first post to access the boards. I do need support and clarity in general.  I just ended a 3 year relationship with someone whose behaviors are taken straight out of "stop walking on eggshells"  We do have a side business and I am working on maintaining healthy boundaries to figure out if I can continue to do so.  His history is to try to act as if nothing is wrong and I am being cold (even after past break ups) and will literally try to wear my resolves down, which has obviously worked before. I feel I have done really well in creating healthy boundaries and have felt the great improvements living without constant fear that my everyday activities are going to be interpreted as a horrible/selfish offense.  I am also finally rekindling friendships that were abandoned in order to keep peace the last few years.  Thanks for letting me join.

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[hope2727]

Sorry you are going through all this. I am glad you found this. There are good people here.