Loving a borderline

[Depression = 72% of members]

I’m new to this page , and don’t have a clue what’s going on , but I am married to a borderline and my life is becoming misery ! I love my wife with all my heart , but I am at the point where I don’t know if I even know who she is. We have a daughter and I can see the her being more effected by our turmoil as she gets older . I need help , I need someone to talk to !

[Squirlly]

I’m new to this page , and don’t have a clue what’s going on , but I am married to a borderline and my life is becoming misery ! I love my wife with all my heart , but I am at the point where I don’t know if I even know who she is. We have a daughter and I can see the her being more effected by our turmoil as she gets older . I need help , I need someone to talk to !

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[hope2727]

You are not alone there are many good people here who understand. Keep posting and keep reading other peoples experiences. We understand.

[Longterm]

Hi Squirlly and welcome.

We understand how difficult this can be.

Why dont you start by telling us about the difficulties you are having.

LT.