Hi!
I want to join Radcliff and say
. You are definitely in the right spot and we can help support you as you work your way towards healing and learning new and better coping skills regardless of the eventual status of your relationship.
Radcliff (RC) asked some good questions so i do not want to pile on with more. Instead, I will encourage you to read articles and threads and jump in and post as you see fit. We all work together to support each other.
Again, welcome