Hi GoodDeeds and welcome!
I'm wondering what kinds of things have people added strictly for their BPD to an IEP?
Wow - this is such a GREAT question! I don't have a specific answer for you but I hope others do.
My son used to have and IEP as well, years ago long before I knew about BPD.
Can you imagine how things could be different if teachers and police had training in the skills that we are learning and knew the tools to diffuse a situation?
Thanks for posting - good food for thought!
R