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Author Topic: I love my bpd ex still want her back  (Read 473 times)
Jboy305

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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Friends she wants to be friends but says she wants to get back together
Posts: 13


« on: February 05, 2020, 05:30:59 PM »

We met in a mental hospital she fell for me at the start then she needed space I chased her a bit to make feel loved but she was in a different ward she hurt my feeling I told her I made feel guilty because I accused her of wanting to be with her ex but I know that's not the chase now she was in 7 month before I sign myself in and she got out before me she texted me said she couldn't believe I thought she would treat me like PLEASE READ and asked why I accused her of wanting to get Back with her ex I told her it was because when I seen her she would be rude and talk to other people and not try and talk to me and this one time I seen her outside smoking she was laughing and joking with another guy and then she walked by me looking right at me and didn't say anything. I got sick of making all the effort and I told her because she didn't tell me she spoke to her ex I told it hurt.  She said she loved me and that hurt. At that point in time I got another girl to write on my Facebook timeline and I told her that she texted back said she didn't even see it but I also told her I was unhappy she didn't make me feel wanted then she called to see if we were still together the next day her friend told me I hurt her and to tell her how I felt I told her it was because I was scared incase she was trying to find someone else. She told me she wasn't I should have trusted her and she stopped talking to me I got her flowers and left them at her door step she started talking to me again then when I got out hospital she mailed me told me she wanted to be friends she called immediately to talk I was in a good mood I was nice . I said to her when we were together that many we should be friends for a while she invited me up to her house at the weekend there and her brithday had past I got her a cake with a candle because she said her mom doesn't go to see her and a card she smiled when she read it we went to her bedroom to watch a flim she got changed in front of me I seen her in her underwear and we were laying in her bed I asked if she wanted to get back together and see said she wanted to see how we got on outside of hospital she said it's not a no just not right now I can understand because after I got out of that mental health ward she got put back in she said she signed herself out after 1 night after the day I went to her house I mailed her told her it was GD to see her and to stay in contact she said she would I'm playing it cool and giving her space Al give it a month and if she doesn't come to me Al reach out to her I didn't mean to hurt her I love her but she doesn't see that she still has feelings for me definitely but I know she likes the attention ps I have ADHD I found that out when I was in hospital I am better the only thing that is wrong is I miss her and will do whatever it takes to get her back
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