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Author Topic: What are the best steps to get a borderline ex girlfriend back  (Read 387 times)
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« on: March 22, 2020, 11:40:17 PM »

I didn't understand her at first I understand alot better now I had no idea how senstive she is I didn't know at the time I found out I have ADHD and I was focusing on her problems when I should have been focusing on myself

We hurt each other feelings when we met I don't think we were in the right place for a relanonship she is not she recently lost her father I love the girl we didn't break up on bad terms


I'm giving her space she reached out to me said things would get better between us then her dad took his life so I know it's going to take time she must know I'm there for her and I care

Just I'm scared incase I mess things up help
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« Reply #1 on: March 22, 2020, 11:42:40 PM »

I didn't understand her at first I understand alot better now

We hurt each other feelings when we met I don't think we were in the right place for a relanonship she is not she recently lost her father I love the girl we didn't break up on bad terms she was distant I got scared I thought at the time she was trying to find someone else I was wrong she has been through alot so she needs time


I'm giving her space she reached out to me said things would get better between us then her dad took his life so I know it's going to take time she must know I'm there for her and I care

Just I'm scared incase I mess things up help
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