My girlfriend breaks up with me once or twice a month. It has caused a lot of mistrust.
She has a serious gambling addiction and has lost over 2 million dollars. This might sound like an untruth, but she creates bitcoin scams to steal money from people so that she can gamble.
She tries to control her drinking, but you can see that it sometimes becomes a problem, not as bad as the gambling but its used to soothe, rather than just for fun.
She often asks me to try and fine her other hard drugs like coke.
She has an eating disorder wherein sometimes binge eats thousands and thousands of calories at a time, or goes days without eating
her weight fluctuates between under weight and over weight.
She gets really paranoid about her scam activities and thinks people are hiding in her bushes
Her feelings seem to be facts to her. She can misinterpret a loving gesture for something malicious and no amount of defending myself matters, in fact it makes her even angrier I wont "admit i was being passive aggressive"
She has no friends left, they have all blocked her and have gone no contact they refuse to speak to her because of her toxic behaviors.
She cannot keep a normal job, and does not get along with or like any co workers when she does have a job.
She has a huge mistrust for all cops, and big pharm" Extremely vocal about being anti vax and how the DSMV is made up, and yet when it is convenient for her to attack me, she claims I have BPD. Most recently after her latest breakup drama I decided to go no contact. I am tired of the back and forth game.
She sent me several emails from several new email addresses bragging about how she convinced people I am crazy, and called me names like crazy and retarded but also told me she cares about me and misses me.
Most recently she has gone on a campaign to convince people that *I* Have bpd, though I see a psychiatrist who does not think I do. I have many close and very stable friendships from childhood, I prettymuch never have drama or fights with my friends. My co workers adore me. I am always fighting for this relationship, I dont break up with or push away my partner, ever.
My closest friend from childhood does not think I have BPD But does think my partner does,
I guess I'm curious based on my description what people maybe more experienced with this think
Thank you.
