just trying to deal with a sever BPD person

[bearsmom27]

Im just looking for other people who can relate to my situation. Fiance cant have just a beer or two if he startsdrinking...then his emotions get very magnified, makes up stories and accuses me of things so totally ridiculous, and constantly asks if Im leaving him.

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[Mutt]

Hi bearsmom27,



Welcome to BPDFamily. I’m glad that you decided to join us and I’m sorry to hear that. That’s difficult when your partner is blaming you because of their own insecurities. Is he diagnosed with BPD?

[BDR]

Hello - is beer the only thing he cant stop or have you noticed other behaviors where he seems to have a bottomless pit? Early in my marriage every little conflict or disagreement we had would result in my partner then later my wife threatening to go back to her mom and dads . At that time she was 25 yo living at home with a 5 yo boy.
I cant go back and wouldn't change it if I could, but I was very naïve regarding behaviors like that.