Hi lola253,
Welcome to our online community

When it comes to dealing with a BPD parent, this definitely is a place where people understand what that's like.
You mention recently having gone through some stuff. Could you tell us a bit more of what you've been through?
I get from the title of your thread, that your mother is the person with BPD in your life. It can be very challenging indeed navigating a relationship with a BPD parent. You also mention her possible psychopatic traits. What are the main traits your mother exhibits that you find concerning and/or difficult to deal with?
The Board Parrot