Am I crazy

[rubyslippers2020]

Hello. This is my first time on this site. I decided to join, so that I can talk to people who can relate to my issues and so I don’t feel like I am crazy.

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[pursuingJoy]

Welcome rubyslippers! Glad you decided to join us! I can definitely relate to feeling upside down when it comes to BPD, and it was a huge reason I joined this online forum. Can you tell us a little more about what's going on?

Take a look around and check out the resources, too. There's a lot under the 'tools' tab that you might find interesting.

Again, welcome!

pj

[rubyslippers2020]

I believe my husband has a personality disorder, weather it’s BPD or NPD. I don’t  t know for sure since he will never go to a doctor long enough for them to diagnose him with anything. However he displays all the traits and some of more than one disorder. I have been with him for many years and am getting sick and tired of his emotionally abusive and controlling ways. I can’t figure out if I am strong for staying with him all this time or weak for not leaving long ago.

[pursuingJoy]

What happened to make you feel crazy? Sometimes specifics are helpful to talk through.