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Bookie

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How do I cope

« on: August 25, 2020, 12:57:25 PM »

Me and my partner have been together for seven years and I first realized something was wrong a couple of years ago. I found out it is BPD and I am broken, tired of the highs and the lows. This has really messed me up mentally and I have lost my self. Need advice on how to cope because the love I feel is real and I am not ready to let go!


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« Reply #1 on: August 26, 2020, 09:36:43 AM »

Bookie, you're in the right place to get support. We understand how you're feeling and what you're dealing with. How did you find out it was BPD?


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