She has gone totally ghost today and last few days

[Woundedfriend]

Wow you guys have helped me out just reading your stories. I feel like I have had a few relationships like this. My latest a close friend at work that keeps playing hot and cold. I once conveyed to her while she was helping me with my marital issues that I had always had a crush on and at the time had feelings for her, I got over that but she constantly uses it as an excuse to push me away and ignore me without reason. This last time was for a month and just last week she warmed up to me after she got into it with our boss and I tried to help keep her out of trouble by telling her to keep her head while replying to a nasty email the whole department was cc’d in between her and our boss. I miss our friendship and our text conversations. We were very god friends. She seemed to target the other people that I’m close to to find my replacement. None of them realize what she really is. She can play the sweetest person in the world and being very attractive can easily seduce men. I wonder once these other people don’t fit her needs if we will ever be close again or if I’m forever branded for my honesty. As a friend this behavior has been very heartbreaking and destructive I can’t imagine a wife like this and shudder looking back on girls friends like this. Thank you guys for your stories. They helped me a lot

[cash05458]

oh thank you for saying that Cromwell...it is always good to hear such things...yes, hopefully over the worst...fingers crossed!

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