Hi... I'm not sure where to start. I have been dating a man for several years that I believe has BPD. He told me that he was diagnosed with BPD, but that follow up with his regular therapist revealed that he does not have BPD. He recently lost his mother and his reaction to her passing was over the top. While discussing funeral arrangements he became enraged with me and began yelling, long story short, he told me he did not want me there. I wish I could say this is an isolated incident, but... it's not. Things can go really well for a while then we are back on an emotional roller coaster. He has been sober for over 30 years, however, he still has addictive behaviors. He is currently not speaking to me, I am at a loss here and not sure what to do. Half the time I feel like I am losing my own sanity. Any insight/guidance or support that is out there... please help, I'm all ears.