Home page of BPDFamily.com, online relationship supportMember registration here
March 28, 2024, 12:49:01 PM *
Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length
Board Admins: Kells76, Once Removed, Turkish
Senior Ambassadors: Cat Familiar, EyesUp, SinisterComplex
  Help!   Boards   Please Donate Login to Post New?--Click here to register  
bing
Things we can't ignore
What Does it Take to Be in a Relationship
Why We Struggle in Our Relationships
Is Your Relationship Breaking Down?
Codependency and Codependent Relationships
93
Pages: [1]   Go Down
  Print  
Author Topic: Living with a Dragon  (Read 382 times)
LifewithaDragon
Fewer than 3 Posts
*
Offline Offline

What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Relationship status: Living together
Posts: 1


« on: April 01, 2021, 02:13:24 AM »

 What was a "love at first sight" story has turned into a "love on a rollercoaster" ride over the last year.
Nothing is consistent, except for the explosive behaviour outbursts and the evening ritual joint.  There are other factors involved, including drinking and hidden drug use.
This is an opposites attract relationship that, I am trying to reverse the polarity on and exit, to regain my sanity. This is now in process.


Advise, shared stories, other are all welcome.
« Last Edit: April 01, 2021, 02:21:30 AM by LifewithaDragon » Logged
PLEASE - NO RUN MESSAGES
This is a high level discussion board for solving ongoing, day-to-day relationship conflicts. Members may appear frustrated but they are here for constructive solutions to problems. This is not a place for relationship "stay" or "leave" discussions. Please read the specific guidelines for this group.

Cat Familiar
Senior Ambassador
*
Offline Offline

Gender: Female
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
Posts: 7480



« Reply #1 on: April 01, 2021, 01:27:40 PM »

BPD is difficult enough. Add weed, drinking, and drug use, and it become surreal. It sounds like you’ve got one foot out the door. What’s going on and how can we help you?

Love the dragon metaphor!
Logged

“The Four Agreements  1. Be impeccable with your word.  2. Don’t take anything personally.  3. Don’t make assumptions.  4. Always do your best. ”     ― Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom
once removed
BOARD ADMINISTRATOR
**
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 12608



« Reply #2 on: April 02, 2021, 01:41:14 AM »

What was a "love at first sight" story has turned into a "love on a rollercoaster" ride over the last year.

Advise, shared stories, other are all welcome.

youve found a group with folks that can definitely relate.

Excerpt
This is an opposites attract relationship that, I am trying to reverse the polarity on and exit, to regain my sanity. This is now in process.

what has happened so far? did you tell her you want to break up?
Logged

     and I think it's gonna be all right; yeah; the worst is over now; the mornin' sun is shinin' like a red rubber ball…
Can You Help Us Stay on the Air in 2024?

Pages: [1]   Go Up
  Print  
 
Jump to:  

Our 2023 Financial Sponsors
We are all appreciative of the members who provide the funding to keep BPDFamily on the air.
12years
alterK
AskingWhy
At Bay
Cat Familiar
CoherentMoose
drained1996
EZEarache
Flora and Fauna
ForeverDad
Gemsforeyes
Goldcrest
Harri
healthfreedom4s
hope2727
khibomsis
Lemon Squeezy
Memorial Donation (4)
Methos
Methuen
Mommydoc
Mutt
P.F.Change
Penumbra66
Red22
Rev
SamwizeGamgee
Skip
Swimmy55
Tartan Pants
Turkish
whirlpoollife



Powered by MySQL Powered by PHP Powered by SMF 1.1.21 | SMF © 2006-2020, Simple Machines Valid XHTML 1.0! Valid CSS!