My wife has BPD and DID

[Sprinkles]

Hey everyone, I'm currently struggling and reaching out for any help with this. I am newly married to an amazing girl who suffered from bpd and did. I'm having a hard time understanding a lot about the way her brain works and it's causing a lot of stress on her. What can I do to help?

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[once removed]

welcome to the family! youve come to the right place!

tell us more about whats going on in your relationship and what youre struggling with. we can help.

[WhatToDo47]

I’m struggling with the same thing. I don’t really have any advice but you’re not alone!

[bugwaterguy]

Lots of folks here are going through what you are - we are all trying to figure stuff out and help each other.

I strongly recommend reading
Stop Walking On Eggshells
Stop Walking On Eggshells Workbook
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder

If your romantic partner has BPD, or you suspect they have - those books will be immeasurably helpful.

It is helpful to read them with a notebook or an electronic way to take notes.  (I like electronic better - because it is easier to search for things later)