Both have BPD

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I came across this site while googling support for BPD I'm guessing I may be a little different as both myself and partner are diagnosed with BPD. Is there anyone else that has been in this situation.
Our relationship is crazy, chaotic, unpredictable, addictive, toxic, sometimes violent, abusive. But it's also the most deepest level of understanding I've ever had with anyone in my life.
I know it's an unhealthy relationship yet fear the thought of not having it. I'm really not sure what I'm trying t get across just wondering if there is anyone in a similar situation and how you handle the moments of madness.

Thanks

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this site is for anyone who is looking for support for a relationship with a loved one who has bpd or bpd traits.

tell us more about your relationship. what are the two of you having the most trouble with recently?