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« on: May 04, 2021, 09:33:14 PM »

Looking for help deciphering if  the crazy eyes when arguing is automatically means there is something more in an undiagnosed otherwise  rather normal boyfriend. I followed a thread about this specifically and was curious if anyone had experience with this in a person without BPD?
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« Reply #1 on: May 04, 2021, 11:45:50 PM »

It’s a hard one to decipher, but I’ve noticed my wife would get the crazy eyes when she would split or in this devaluing phase.
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« Reply #2 on: May 05, 2021, 12:35:12 AM »

What do you mean by "crazy eyes"?
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« Reply #3 on: May 05, 2021, 12:58:09 AM »

I know what you mean.  It's not scientific, but I spot that uBPDh would have "crazy eyes" when he's raging.  I don't know what's going on in his mind, but it's a very different expression than when he's just angry with me.  It's like he's possessed...
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