FRAUDULENT psych manipulating exwbpd

[samIam85]

I just figured out that my exs psych is a fraud and referred by this "family friend "( who on reality is her pimp  although she has yet to realize it yet  ) and may even be working for the guy to  control her.  A background search reveal that this guy was foreign gastroenterologist  that has no certifications whatsoever in mental hearh and iwas only able to get his license through some loopholer  where  I guess after spending two years in a the medical school you are legally allowed to practice . I verifed  he has no mental health training, that his experience in the medicine was only as a physician , and that his award s from NAMI are fake as they have no record of him. My ex was always really secretivr about him and  might even be banging him now  , but I know She sticks with him in  part i
 because she had planned to use him as an expert witness in  her custody hearings but a two-year-old would be able to dismiss this guy based on his lack of expertise . I'm fairly certain this creep is just using her for the voluntary extra hour of talk therapy he does wiyh her as a "hobby". All this explains why she has never gotten any better and why she's taking such a curious mix of meds that would make anyone stupid and forgetful. my own therapist was able to diagnose her after two sessions with me and yet after 2 years with him he still has yet to bring up the fact that she has a screaming personality disorder!. I  know the asshole has even delusional thoughts including that I'm working for her ex-husband and that there's listening bug potentially in her house. It makes me questioned because I know that she gets hyper arroused when she gets scared and maybe he does too and that's why he's enabling her false perceptions of reality.
  I was two seconds away from breaking our mutual TRO's ( hers containing pure BS ) to warn her but had to stop and think to myself whether I should even try. Although I do know that this is malpractice, I can't necessarily say every messed up thing she's done to me was this guy's fault. I'm really at odds here. Tell her she's being manipulated by the only person she actually trusts or leave her to ruin her life even more  and let her learn the hard way.i ve been NC for 6 months but am now again back to the 'theres a reason and a chance faze" . But then again even if I do tell her it's because she has these innate qualities within her that hes able to do this and I honestly feel she will resume her negative ways after so much time

[grumpydonut]

Sam,

I understand the hurt you're going through, but how did you even come across this information?