She got married within 6 months

[Anonym2806]

it’s been so quick.
2 years with me serving her _____ then she met this guy, and they got married within 6 months.
Showing off how much she’s happy.

I don’t understand how she made it with him.
Im still pissed off and sometimes I think about her.
I’m no contact for 8 months now.

[Mutt]

Hey Anonymous2086,

Im sorry to hear the news. It takes time for o not have our pwBPD on our minds.  Good for continuing with sticking to your boundaries

[So many questions]

Well the bright side, you don’t have to go through a messy divorce like she probably will. If she’s BPD and not healed, there really isn’t much hope. And you don’t have to be that poor husband whose really just a doormat.

Maybe they love each other. Maybe he can take more. Maybe she’s happy she found that. Good for them.

If you’re relationship was anything like mine, you dodged a nuclear bomb. 

I know your pain. Mine moved on quick. I don’t exist. It’s been 3 weeks. But honestly, I’m starting to feel myself care less and less.

[SinisterComplex]

it’s been so quick.
2 years with me serving her PLEASE READ then she met this guy, and they got married within 6 months.
Showing off how much she’s happy.

I don’t understand how she made it with him.
Im still pissed off and sometimes I think about her.
I’m no contact for 8 months now.

Hey the anger and hurt is valid for sure. We all get it here. All I will offer up...appreciate that you are free and not tied down to an inevitable clusterF and bitter end. You got a new lease on life...use it wisely to better yourself.

Cheers and best wishes!

-SC-