a) Searched forums, no results for hydroxyzine, Google-fu showed
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=280976.0 but nothing else...seems odd.
b) Forum really needs a "General" for where we want input from everyone, not just people dealing with a daughter not a wife, etc...questions about medications for example, would prefer the larger sample pool from a "General"
Actual:
So we have a lot of experience with Alprazolam and Buspirone and Escitalopram and such in the household dealing with BPD - in fact I'm a cheerleader of Alprazolam and I don't care what studies say about addiction rates...we haven't faced any addictions, but it's doubtless saved her life on several occasions.
Now our S10 is facing the same BPD roller-coaster as his mother did at that age, and he's got a new therapist who is wanting to put him on a PRN antihistimine "since it isn't habit-forming and it works better than Benadryl".
The idea of "Oh yes, Benadryl can calm him down by making him drowsy" seems so antithetical to me as to make me bristle - but in fairness I've never heard of Hyroxyzine/Atarax before, though obviously they're both antihistimines, etc.
Does anyone have any anecdotal thoughts from their own family history on the use of Hydroxyzine? How sudden is the onset? Is it legitimately just drowsy+dopamine=calm? Am I right to be skeptical?