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Her new husband called me this morning :s
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Hi,
Been on and off with her 2 years. After I broke up with her, she started to date this guy, and been married within 6 months.
I didn’t text her or seen her any kind of contact for 1,5 year.
Last week, I texted her asking for a contact name from her city, business wise, and in the same time, congratulated her about her marriage and that I was happy for her.
I didn’t get answer and this morning, her husband called me and asked me to not contact her anymore.
I didn’t know someone could hate like this even after more than 1 year. I talked to this guy nicely and told him it was only for business. That’s it.
Well, I wanted to share this but I want to say as well that I’m not into her for more than 1 year and that I’ve seen people treating me differently (woman I dated recently)
It’s a long path but it worth it at the end.
Cheers guys.
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How was his attitude towards you? Odd that she couldn't even text or ignore. She had to triangulate her husband.
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Quote from: Turkish on August 25, 2022, 10:47:09 PM
How was his attitude towards you? Odd that she couldn't even text or ignore. She had to triangulate her husband.
He was polite and talked with courtesy. I imagine how difficult it is for him now. She’s playing with him probably.
This is what they do, playing with the love one.
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I think this video might help you to move on once and for all:
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=353714.0
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Quote from: Couscous on August 27, 2022, 05:11:20 PM
I think this video might help you to move on once and for all:
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=353714.0
Thanks but I moved on ☺️ I can have much better in my life as a lovely woman.
Now, early redflags and I pull back.
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Then why did you text her?
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Quote from: Couscous on August 27, 2022, 07:31:01 PM
Then why did you text her?
It was for work. She has a contact that I need. But I know from now that even a simple thing like this is not possible to ask.
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