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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« on: August 24, 2022, 04:16:54 PM »

Hi,

Been on and off with her 2 years. After I broke up with her, she started to date this guy, and been married within 6 months.
I didn’t text her or seen her any kind of contact for 1,5 year.

Last week, I texted her asking for a contact name from her city, business wise, and in the same time, congratulated her about her marriage and that I was happy for her.
I didn’t get answer and this morning, her husband called me and asked me to not contact her anymore.

I didn’t know someone could hate like this even after more than 1 year. I talked to this guy nicely and told him it was only for business. That’s it.
Well, I wanted to share this but I want to say as well that I’m not into her for more than 1 year and that I’ve seen people treating me differently (woman I dated recently)
It’s a long path but it worth it at the end.

Cheers guys.
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« Reply #1 on: August 25, 2022, 10:47:09 PM »

How was his attitude towards you? Odd that she couldn't even text or ignore. She had to triangulate her husband.
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« Reply #2 on: August 27, 2022, 02:24:11 AM »

How was his attitude towards you? Odd that she couldn't even text or ignore. She had to triangulate her husband.

He was polite and talked with courtesy. I imagine how difficult it is for him now. She’s playing with him probably.
This is what they do, playing with the love one.
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« Reply #3 on: August 27, 2022, 05:11:20 PM »

I think this video might help you to move on once and for all:

https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=353714.0
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« Reply #4 on: August 27, 2022, 06:24:26 PM »

I think this video might help you to move on once and for all:

https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=353714.0

Thanks but I moved on ☺️ I can have much better in my life as a lovely woman.
Now, early redflags and I pull back.
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« Reply #5 on: August 27, 2022, 07:31:01 PM »

Then why did you text her?
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« Reply #6 on: August 28, 2022, 04:37:24 AM »

Then why did you text her?

It was for work. She has a contact that I need. But I know from now that even a simple thing like this is not possible to ask.
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