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The Intelligent Divorce

« on: September 10, 2022, 05:06:03 PM »

I just stumbled upon Dr. Mark Banschick’s blog on Psychology Today and wow, I am greatly impressed by his understanding of BPD (and NPD) dynamics. Here’s one of his articles: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-intelligent-divorce/201111/do-you-have-impossible-ex

He has a couple of books and as well as a very reasonably priced course on his website: https://mark-banschick.mykajabi.com/


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Re: The Intelligent Divorce

« Reply #1 on: September 10, 2022, 05:50:18 PM »

Understatement:

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Victims are paradoxically ruthless in victimizing anyone who they believe hurt them.


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