Hello friend x
Your ex best friend is about to get his worst nightmare ever probably very soon!
It's been over 2 months for me and I have started enjoying my peace. No more walking on eggshells, no more thinking "what mood is he going to be in today?", no more stressing about what to say and do and how to say and do it so he doesn't get mad.
You will get there!
Your ex (like most of BPD exes) will be turning others lives into hell. She won't change (unless she puts all her efforts into it) and she won't be in a stable relationship unless she starts to date someone without brain, eyes and ears.
You deserve better person than her. And your ex best friend deserves exactly what he has now (and what is about to come).
Thank you.
He looked as sheepish as ever. An automaton in thrall to her. A golem. A slave.
He is probably paying for the tix. She is in debt, unemployed and constantly shopping, even if at thrift shops. I'm single, just got a well-paying job and am getting to know new people in my life. Not weaseling my way into anyone's lives.
He's worked so hard the past few years. He lashed out as his ex with BPD a couple years back and started looking for a therapist. Kept single for the longest patch ever. And now he's shackled to her whims and devices.